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| Frequently asked Questions about Mediation
What is the difference between Mediation and Therapy?
In therapy, the therapist or counselor helps the client resolve personal or interpersonal issues by working through emotions and problems from the past. In Mediation, the mediator helps the clients engage in cooperative problem solving, acknowledging emotions but not focusing on them. In addition, the Mediator encourages the clients for focus on the future, not dwell in the past.
How long does each session last?
In family mediation sessions run approximately two hours. In other types of mediation sessions can last up to six hours at a time.
Are these sessions confidential?
Yes. The mediators regard everything said in a session as confidential. If a trial is held the mediator will not testify. However, if the mediator learns of unreported child or elder abuse or if any participant makes a genuine threat of physical harm to self or others, the mediator must report.
How many sessions will it take to resolve a conflict?
The number of sessions is determined by the parties and the number and complexity of the issues.
Will the mediator make decisions for us?
No. The mediator is not a judge, advocate or decision maker. Rather she or he is an impartial facilitator who helps the parties remain focused on the issues they bring to the session.
Who is present in the session?
Generally the parties in conflict and the mediator are present. However if the parties agree, others, such as attorneys or family members can be included.
How are agreements made in mediation enforced?
In mediation, agreements may be typed into a "Memorandum of Agreement" which may be included in a court order or other binding agreement.
How much does it cost?
Fees are determined by the type of mediation and can run from $80 per hour, per person in the case of family mediation up to $1000 a day in a business setting. In all cases fees are discussed and agreed to prior to the first session.
Can mediation help in a domestic violence situation?
If there has been domestic violence in a family, mediation is inappropriate if the parties are still living together or if one of the parties is uncomfortable. The mediator will do an extensive assessment prior to the session to determine the appropriateness of mediation.
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"Our task is not to fix blame for the past, but to fix the course for the future." John F. Kennedy
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Mediation: An idea who's time has come
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